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Preparing for Mediation

Prepare for Mediation

Mediation is an extremely effective method of resolving disputes.  There are several things that enhance the possibility of success.

1.  Preparation: Bring anything that may be helpful to refer to when negotiating your settlement.  Sometimes research is also helpful.  If you find a resource in a book or online, bring copies with you to refer to when making your point.  Accurate information is powerful only when presented at the right time. 

What Clients Say:

Judy West Denver Mediator Arbitrator

"Just wanted to let you know that we got through yesterday and got a decree. It was a very surreal experience, and of course-just really sad. ...The judge was great, I have to say. And the first thing he said, btw, was how our MOU was one of the best and most detailed he had ever gotten—and he appreciated it. Thought you might want that feedback." Jenn D. (Divorce)

"Judy mediated my divorce and I must say she did a wonderful job... I highly recommend Judy for anyone. She listens well, has great knowledge and is very efficient. Thanks Judy"  Trent R. (Divorce Mediation)

"I know we really dragged our feet with you but we were not fully committed to the idea of a permanent separation, which frankly scared the hell out of us, and you were very sensitive to that.  It was when we began working with you did we realize everything that was at stake and it was very depressing.  It forced us to behave better and value our relationship more.  Who knew walking into your office would be the first step in restoring our marriage?!  Thank you!"  Liz B. (Divorce Mediation)

 

"Hi Judy...thank you so much for all your efforts to help me and my spouse work through the very difficult process of negotiating, despite her unfortunate choice to "stonewall" me, and manipulate you. You thoroughly impressed me with your perceptiveness of what was going on, and your directness in addressing it, all while maintaining your professionalism and poise. Thank you for being honest and fair, and for your loyalty to the truth...rare qualities it seems in this day and age."  Steven J. (Divorce Mediation)